by Alice
(U.S.)
Please make sure to allow your children to be individuals and encourage it. Don't ever call them "the twins" or make them do everything together: it's awful. I'm so sick of being a twin because I'm not my own person.
So pay no attention to the "they'll individualize themselves naturally" or "it doesn't matter" bullsh*t. Let them be as individual as possible, your kids will be much better off later on.